As with all memes (subjects that a group of bloggers write about) there are a few rules:
Rules:
Here goes. . . .
How and when do you find the time to…
There is always time for a blog post! Or so I
thought. I only started blogging in Feb and was whizzing them out weekly as
well as writing flash fiction pieces. I thought as long as I have something to
say which has never been a problem, I will always have something to blog about.
And then one day, I lost the motivation, the creativity, the knowhow, the confidence and I guess my mojo.
I tweeted I’d lost my mojo and received some lovely responses which did the
trick . . . . for about a day. I then had some cakes to make which were very
time consuming and a teen’s birthday to celebrate and then I came down with a
cold. I had no get up and go . . . it had long gone. But then something
wonderful happened. . . .the sun came out this weekend and I was smiling! I was
energised and wanted to write. So here we are. I’ve never let the weather bother
me as it seems futile to let it drag you down when you can’t control it but obviously
it was making me rather blah. Anyway, back to the point. I generally blog/write
when Hubby and son are watching American Sci Fi rubbish or when I have an idea
and just need to get it down. I’m always with laptop in evening once everything
is done so there is no excuse to blog/write away to my hearts content :-))..
….look after
yourself…i.e. wash your hair, paint your nails, take a bubble bath etc.?
I don’t. This will be the shortest entry
of this blog! I am not a girly girl so I am pretty minimalist in this
department. I don’t own a hair dryer. I
don’t wear makeup unless going out for the evening. I wash my hair either in
the morning when I shower or evening after a sweaty Zumba class. I let it dry
naturally. I do my own waxing so to save money but it also saves time now I’ve
got the knack. I am now in the habit of one swim a week, one Zumba a week and a
visit to the gym 2 to 3 times a week. That is my down time, my me time. I get
so many things sorted in my head whilst running nowhere on the treadmill. I haven't had a bath for a gazillion years as much prefer the shower which is used daily. In fact when we renovate our bathroom , we're getting rid of the bath completely. I do enjoy my Heat magazine and Esssentials magazine but they are bought occassionally now. I love to read books and need to do this at night before sleep so to switch off and relax.
….spend
time with your other half?
This
one is tricky too and at times I need reminding that Hubby is there as I can get
carried away with everything else. But Hubby does work very long hours and
spends 4 hours a day commuting as well as shifts so sometimes we are ships that
do pass in the night. Sometimes we don’t
see each other for a week as he leaves for work before I get home and vise
versa. It’s not ideal and it’s not good. So when he is off, we tend to go for
walks over Ashdown forest, the beach or mooch, around Lewes. We always talk to
each other on the phone (very rarely text) as talking is so important. I hate
being a rat bag because I am too tired but work does get in the way.
….do
fun stuff with your LO?
I
assume LO is loved ones? Well I have one child who is now 14 so he is pretty
much always out with friends or on his Xbox in his room. Occasionally we’ll go
out as a family but they are getting rarer as son likes his time doing what he
wants and we like adult time; going to the pub for lunch etc. However we always
sit to eat dinner together when hubby is off.
Hubby and son have a cinema night which is cute and that leaves me at
home with the cat and the laptop and the TV remote. Woo hoo! Occassionally son and I will catch up with a DVD which is cute but don't tell him I said that.
….socialise with friends?
‘Words with friends’ on Facebook is a tad
addictive and I seem to be on there with my friends quite a bit. During half term we meet
round each other houses for lunch, each bringing something for the lunch. Once
a month we all attend the pub quiz for a humorous evening. I am lucky that I do
work with my friends so see them on a daily basis. Those I don’t work with are
more tricky! I recently met up with a friend a few weeks ago and we both
realised we hadn’t seen each other for about 6 years! Shocking! But it seemed
only like yesterday which is the mark of true friendship. And we won't leave it that long next time!
….prepare an evening
meal juggling a baby/toddler bedtime routine?
N/A
(no toddler anymore) and I am the Undomesticated Devil so evening meal is not
set in stone unless Hubby cooking. If I do cook, it’s pasta which is 20 minutes
or a one pot casserole all in the oven and it’s done. I am not a bad cook, I
just don’t like doing it most of the time. I am lucky I have a Hubby who enjoys
cooking and can cook!
….deep
clean your house? ….do the food shopping?
I’ve
put these 2 together otherwise it would be embarrassingly short! I’m rubbish at
cleaning. I hate it. However, I am a bit evil in that my Hubby is a bit OCD
when it comes to cleanliness and I do take advantage of that. I’ll do the
hoovering and blitz the kitchen and that’s as deep as it goes . . . . for me anyway. Hubby does it most of
the time. Anyway, when I’ve hovered and
then he comes along and does it like an hour later, then what’s the point? As
for the shopping. Hubby does it when he’s off in the week as there are less
people around, he has the car and I take too long. Apparently my brain implodes
in the cereal aisle let alone trying to manage all the other aisles. Hubby gets
it done in half the time if I don’t go and spends a lot less!!
….bulk ironing
Oops,
have answered that earlier.
Well
that’s it. A little peek into my world . . . some of you may want to hire my
Hubby; rates negotiable. I am not too bad but there is room for improvement but
I do work in a very demanding job and my Hubby does the cleaning so much better
than I ever could ;-). It's funny, but my hubby has been requesting I salute him, award him with all that he does so I guess this blog goes someway to doing that so I dedicate this blog to him. xxxx
Now I
tag 3 others in this rather tricky but fun meme . . . .
And don't worry about having to complete now; it is a time management meme after all and it's taken me 4 weeks ;-) xxxx,
Very good and hubby should feel honoured that he has a blog dedicated to him!!! I love the cleaning mention. The same thing happens in this house but I am the one who recleans what everyone else already did. They also say, 'what's the point? It is hard to find time to do everything. My sundays are taken up with the cleaning, ironing etc. The washing is done daily as there are 5 of us so it needs to be done like that. But that's life. Going by way too quickly. Well done chickadee, I go to bed soon after reading your second blog and realise that I woke up this morning to your first one today. xxxxx
ReplyDeleteDon't get too used to your early morning blog reads and bed time blog reads. I don't usually write them this close together but this one has been waiting for sometime. And Ralph has wanted a dedication too. Glad you enjoyed it and I too am one of those peeps who mutter 'what's the point' . . . . xxx
DeleteI perked up when you mentioned Lewes...I'm from Brighton originally, so remember Lewes. Is the open air swimming pool still going in the summer? Hubby used to deliver there when he had a delivery job (and I used to accompany him when I was heavily pregnant many years ago!).
ReplyDeleteI think these days we're all becoming less domestic! I only iron if I really, really have to...we invested in a couple of 'non-iron' white shirts from M&S, (I say invested as they are expensive!) but once through the washing machine and dryer and they're good to go, I do like my dryer and with three kids I rather need it, living in Wales now, it's a bit wet to rely on a washing line!
I get side-tracked from cleaning...by anything!